Optimism is a good thing in a relationship. While setting your expectations, make sure you are realistic. High expectations in your relationship can lead to frustrations in your love life. Here are four why high expectations lead to disappointment in relationships
1. Not easy to recognize your differences
There are different things we value in life. You might be having expectations in life but your partner has a different idea all the same. The differences can lead to a conflict of interest. When this happens, the relationship might not last.
2. No happy ending
High expectations are rarely achievable in life. Most partners with high expectations in their relationships end up frustrated. The key to happiness in your love life is setting achievable goals. Do not set goals just to please your partner.
3. Mind reading
Some partners use high expectations to read your mind. Always know that your other half might be having a different opinion about life. The endless differences in your thoughts about the future can lead to more frustrations
4. .Not all things go as planned
Things are never perfect. We make endless plans in our love life but not all of them are achieved at long last. The challenges we face can hamper us from reaching our dreams hence leading to disappointment.