Criticising your partner should be done carefully to avoid bringing on negative comments.
The primary reason why you should be careful about it is that the person who is often criticised does not feel that they are good enough and mostly lose their self-esteem.
This is not good for both of you since it does not give you time to enjoy your love life.
This is how you can deal with this:
1. Always avoid taking it personally
It may be difficult not to take it personally depending on how your emotions are, but you should try and reason out with your spouse, and together you may come up with a tangible solution.
Sometimes, it’s the other person failing to tell you what should be done “nicely”.
2. Always look for the best opportunity to talk about your issues
Chose the best time: when you are both calm.
This will help you speak openly without hiding anything, with the intention of resolving your issues.
3. Talk nicely and differently: use salted words
Just like when playing a ball, you don’t throw the ball with the intention of hitting your partner, so should be the words you use.
Let them be seasoned and sweet, even if the other partner is bitter.
This will help you both to cool down and even ask for forgiveness.
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