Marriage is an institution that comprises of many things. There is always a sequence of how things happen which ranges from marital problems and other associated issues. If such instances happen, think of seeing marriage counselors or coming together to solve the issues in a good manner before it is out of hand. Here are some top mistakes to avoid or to fix in your marriage:

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Lack of respect

Your spouse needs to be shown respect at all times, he or she must be thanked and appreciated without which results in serious marital problems. Never badmouth your marriage partner to friends or any of your associates. Speak nicely and kindly to each other.

Not listening to your spouse

Communication in every aspect of life solves many problems. Failure to listen and pay attention to what your spouse is speaking can lead to bad relationship henceforth. Listen to each other’s views, correct where possible and reach an amicable decision for the purpose of staying happily married.

 Little or no physical intimacy

One of the sole purpose, why you got married, is for physical intimacy. Failure or lack of sexual attraction, physical attraction, and sexual intimacy is automatically a death knell for your union. If such cases happen, seek medical guidance to safeguard your marriage.

Dishonesty

Creating a small room for dishonesty or deceit creates a bigger room for divorce. As a couple, you are one thing therefore, you need to be open to each other and never keep secrets because it will only result in a lack of trust and distance amongst you. Being honest is a mandatory quality among married couples.

Not walking the talk

As couples, you must be persons who keep his/her word. Whatever you say you must be fully accountable for it. Let yes be for yes and no be for no. Actions speak louder than words. Always be in a position to keep your promises and let at all times be counted on by your spouse. If you don’t keep your promises, it will erode safety and the trust amongst you.

Having temper tantrums

As a couple, you need to solve the differences that may arise in a constructive manner. Attacking your spouse with angry outburst will result in fights and make you both losers at the end. Treat your marital disagreements with total maturity and if your anger surpasses you often, seek help from professionals.