Have you ever paid bills for your woman until you wonder whether she is sharing the resources with the whole estate?
Imagine you paid for her hair today, a week later, she needs money for the hair again, she needs fare to go out with her girls on Friday and on Saturday she will be traveling home to see her parents. This is too much;
You can easily tell she is scamming you by the following:
1. She is always needy
I am not saying that when she asks for something she is lying, no. However, I just figured out that women who are after money will be asking for too much within a short period so that in case you realise it, she will have “milked” you enough.
You are not staying together but she wants you to pay her rent, pay for the cab, buy her new clothes and shoes weekly and buy food, it is a scam.
2. She gets mad when you don’t pay
I was reading a newspaper column of a man who sounded depressed and was looking for advice from an expert. He said that he had a woman who would buy a lot of things and only to give the man the receipts, when he refused to pay she would call him names as “stingy”, “poor”, they eventually broke up.
If someone is genuine, they will understand when you don’t have but they will never call you “poor”.
3. She needs the money “urgently”
Every time she needs the money, she will text or call and she makes sure that she finishes the message with the word “it is urgent please”. The only emergency I know is sickness or fire but luxury can wait otherwise, it is a scam
4. She is nice when asking for the money
I have heard conversations with my friends and they all agree that when she sparks a conversation by calling you sweet names yet she does not usually do this, there is a likelihood like you are going to pay the bills.
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