Flirting with your crush could be a nice thing and you may get to achieve your set objective if you do it correctly.
However, when flirting goes wrong, it is usually catastrophic and with far-reaching consequences. There is really no set formula for flirting but there are things that are consistent when it comes to the flirting.
With the aspects of flirting well mastered, it is a surefire way that your efforts will bear fruits. On the flip side, if not well mastered, these things can get you down.
Here are flirting mistakes that you need to avoid at all costs to be successful when flirting:
1. Moving too fast
When flirting with your crush, you have to be extremely careful about what you say and how you do things. Though you are interested in them, do not make this so obvious, take time.
2. Closed body language
Talking to your crush with a closed body language will only mean that you are not interested in whatever it is you are talking about. Talking to them while folding your hands either at the front or behind your back will go a long way in swaying their perception of your interest. Folding or crossing legs will also harm their perception of your interest in the talk.
3. Facing different directions
You could be shy and it could be understandable but one thing is for sure; gazing in different directions during a chat is not how it should be.
It will only mean you are not interested in the proceedings and all they are saying. You need to be bold enough to face whoever you are talking to even if their presence petrifies you.
4. Waiting too long to text
You should find a balance between moderating your texts so that they do not feel like you are not interested. You should also find the balance in between such that they do not perceive you as so desperate.
5. Pretending to be someone else
This is perhaps the most awkward thing you should ever try when attempting to impress your crush.
You should just be yourself in all that you do even if they may not like it. Pretending will be suicidal as you will not be able to maintain a fake character long enough before they find out. Just be who you are.
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