Being with a partner with whom you share common interests is important for a successful relationship.
You may try as much as possible to impress a Nairobi girl but her reactions will ultimately tell you that she is just disinterested in you or either way.
The following indicators portray that she is just not into you:
1. I'm unprepared for a relationship
When a girl falls in love with you, she feels like spending every minute with you. However, she is not really interested in you when you unsuccessfully try to woo her into a relationship.
She cites reasons like being unready for any relationship, focusing on her personal life etc.
2. I'm quite busy, maybe next time
If she is literally busy, she will create some time to be with you. If she deliberately keeps on shifting meeting dates that you suggested, just know that she can't rhyme with your rhythm.
3. I am currently engaged
At times, a girl will feign having a boyfriend just to drive you away. This is because she don't want a replica of her previous heartbreaks or she simply assumes that you are not worth of her date.
She uses this mechanism to indirectly tell you to break the story short and get going.
4. She neither replies your messages nor answers your calls
A girl who is bemused by you will answer your calls and text messages promptly and apologise if she fails to answer them on time. On the other hand, she fails to answer and even blocks your calls.