Even as the debate between 'sponsors' and 'slay queens' gains momentum across the counties, not a single Somali slay queen has ever fallen victim of the new social trend. 

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This fact has raised questions as to whether the slay queens of Somali are unapproachable or sponsors have a negative perception on them. 

Amid these perceptions, there are two main reasons why sponsors avoid such girls as side chicks.

1. Somali slay queens highly value their conservative culture

The Somali culture is highly conservative, and their ladies too have embraced this aspect of their tradition. 

As such, all their ladies getting into institutions of higher education as universities do not easily fall victim to campus madness or even the desire for lavish lifestyles. 

Therefore, as girls from other tribes get entangled in the new lifestyle, Somali queens live to true to their culture and this is the reason they never inter-marry with other tribes with ease.

2. Somali culture highly values the family unit

The sponsor-slay queen madness is an aspect of unfaithfulness in relationships and it is frequently facilitated by rich married men spoiling young unmarried ladies. 

With this in mind, Somali women who have great respect to the family unit never subscribe to such immoral values. 

In any case, a man wishing to 'sponsor' a Somali girl should be willing to take her as a wife. 

Commitment is also a virtue among the Somali women. 

Therefore, any man wishing to date them should show genuine commitment, a fact that many sponsors avoid like a plaque.

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