Temptation is careless; it doesn't care what kind of a person you are and the devil as you know is always a liar. Men have always been tempted to 'get close and busy' with house helps and this is a big immorality that should be avoided at all costs. 

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Here 4 tips on how to avoid 'messing' with your house maid;

1. Think about the repercussions of being nabbed in the act

This should be the first thing to think of whenever you feel tempted to 'get busy' with the house maid. Ask yourself what will happen in case your wife or anybody nabs you in the act. 

And again you should be aware that they might use this to blackmail you and make life unbearable for you. 

2. Avoid being only two of you in the house

Being only the two of you in the house only creates room for temptations. The best thing you can do is to avoid being just two in the house. 

Besides, this might create suspicion in your wife's mind. So limit your time at home with her (that is, if you think you might get tempted).

3. Don't let her get used to visiting your bedroom

This is the point where it usually begins. When she is used to visiting your bedroom now and again, one day it will happen that she gets you so ready for anything. 

For the sake of your marriage, avoid letting her into your bedroom. If it is for cleaning purposes then your wife should do that. 

4. Maximise on being home when wife is around

This does not require any deep explanations. When wife is home, definitely you will find it hard thinking of doing such a thing. 

Simply, ensure you are home when wife is home to make things safe for you. 

NOTE: Let this article not make you neglect your duties at home. You can as well stay strong and say no to such temptations. However, if you are so susceptible to temptations then the aforementioned points are good for you.