This is the million dollar question that's getting most female tongues wagging within the Kenyan dating scene. Kenyan men and to a large extent most men, actually come out of dates with the weird expectation that women owe them physical action especially if the man paid a good amount of money on the date.
Most women have even taken to various social media sites to rebuke this fast-growing assumption that if a man spends on a woman, then it would only be right that he's rewarded handsomely for his financial efforts. Most men have been reported to take this so personally that they end up demanding for some physical action.
Where does all these aggression and misplaced assumptions root from. Where did we go wrong as a society? What gender is exactly to blame for this misrepresentations? What do men really expect from women? What do women think about men spending money on them?
All these questions require answers that might illuminate a clear path to finding a lasting solution to several conflicting dating and relationship dynamics. Given the Kenyan situation right now, men are expected to be financially stable and solely reliable to cover a couple's liabilities. Meanwhile, women demand that men should be able to treat them right, like queens and princesses that they are!
Both genders have contributed actively to the determination of the expectations that result from the balancing of this equation.
Do you think men are justified to ask for an intimate session after their wallet is chewed on a date?