Relationship rules are good and help you become better partners. You both get to have that sense of originality that will mean you operate on set dimensions.
However, if the rules are too peculiar, you may be left under a cloud and without any knowledge of the situation. They may not tell you that they do not like the rules but will certainly just go quiet and leave you in the dark.
Here are some of the 'rules' you should always try to evade whatsoever and make sure they do not find a way to infiltrate into whatever you have in place:
1. Money boundaries
Well, they say money is the root of all evil. It is true. When you set boundaries on how you spend money on your partner or in your relationship, it could work against you.
It is better if they know that it indeed isn't available rather than saying it cannot be used on that.
2. Withholding information
Whenever anything happens, it is good to always let your partner know. If in any case they just find out later, it is usually disastrous and can lead to a very serious trust damage.
3. No phone privacy
In all that you do, you just have to respect the privacy of your partner. Phone privacy is very important in a relationship. You need to give them time to do their stuff and only intrude when they let you.
Being creepy and peeping into their stuff on the phone whether in their presence or when they are away will only damage what you stand for.
4. Equal distribution of responsibilities
In a relationship or in marriage, you should always be careful how you distribute what you do. Men will never be content with doing what a lady is doing.
Whenever this happens, they will find it highly intolerable and will want to walk away and try out newer fields.
5. Assumptions
A relationship built on assumptions will not really flourish. You have to set your priorities right and get everything in order. If you are going through a hard time, do not just assume that you will be good. Make sure you work everything out and rectify. The earlier the better.
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