First impressions do matter. They matter even more when it's a potential employer or your future love interest's attention that you're seking to capture.
Your first choice of words can either make it all come together or mark the beginning of things falling apart. Here are a list of common phrases that might ruin your first impression:
Word choice and tonality are key to making a first impression. Sticking to formal phrases and predictable speech patterns doesn't makke an impression.
2. "Me... Me... Me"
Nobody cares about you, atleast not at first sight, especially on a date. Try and be more creative and dynamic.
3. "Hope you don't mind that I was late"
This phrase shows just how little you appreciate other people's time. It would be much better if you apologize instead.
4. "Sorry for taking your time"
This phrase puts you at a disadvantage from the onset. By diminishing your value you ruin your overall outlook. Rather than be sorry, you should go for appreciation instead.
Nothing ruins a first impression as being seen as either boring or nagging. Conversations need to be smooth and effortless. Each phrase should open up several channels of conversation.