Maybe we should say: “Why coward men leave their pregnant girlfriends” instead since no serious man can leave a woman pregnant with his child. There is nothing more painful and heartbreaking to a woman like being abandoned when pregnant.
Just imagine having been in love with a man, planning to live together, having romanced, visited places, planned so many things together… later to be told that you were planning that all along, that you did not use a pill as agreed or you just wanted his money, and so on. Most of these words are heard by not one, not two, but most relationships on the verge of collapse when the lady becomes pregnant.
What could be the reason? Have a read:
1. The man was never yours, he is married or has a commitment to someone else
Yes, he was just using you for sexual pleasures while having a wife and even kids, or maybe the guy has a lady more attractive than you, with money and can’t settle with you since the other side is more attractive for his fantasies, hence the decision to dump you even for stupid reasons.
2. He saw you with someone else and thinks the baby is not his
The guy may have seen you with someone or even caught you in the act with another man and cannot be sure whether the baby is his. He probably is waiting for the baby to be born and decide from there.
3. His family does not want you
This happens often when he comes from a powerful and rich family: they may not be interested in you at all and siblings might even advise him to stay away from you are not his class, or that baby may not even be his or “her family” is cursed, they practice witchcraft, and other stupid invented reasons. Since he is not a man enough, he will not stand for you in the first place.
4. The man is not yet ready to settle, he is immature
The guy you call your “man” may be immature, hence the reason of fleeing you once you become pregnant and being scared and not understanding the responsibility they are facing.
5. It is his habit
Yes, my sister, and sorry for that. You might have fallen for a guy who has like 5, 8, to 10 kids to different women and before you know it, you become a victim too. What do you think will happen once he has a kid with you and you are number 11? No change will happen whatsoever. He was just having a moment of fun and an “accident” happened to him.
6. You were just a moment of fun for him and not a woman of his dreams
As stupid as it sounds, this happens often. Some men will even dare to tell you that it was “just a moment of erection and pleasure and nothing else”. He will then tell you that he cannot even help you raise the kid, that he did not like you.
In conclusion, the above 6 stupid reasons exist and it is unfortunate. Women should be careful and not fall for a loser who will only destroy their lives and disappear.