As a man, you would think that your woman really loves you and she respects you but in the real sense, she considers you to be “half-baked” man.
It is a bitter reality but some of our men have earned this title because of their misgivings or their financial status.
The following are types of men women would consider to be 'half-baked':
1. A man with no vision
If you are a man and your only interest is to live today, then it is with no doubt that the woman you are having might be seeing a “lesser” man before her.
A respectable man is a person who thinks of tomorrow and has a purpose.
2. A violent man
While your fellow men are bringing out the angelic side of their women, you are there mistreating her. When she tells her friends about you, this is when everything changes because they will “belittle” you and that is how you lose her and her friends’ respect.
3. A broke man
I have occasionally asked some friends of mine this question, “why did you leave your handsome boyfriend?" The answer has almost been constant, “huyo hana kitu ya kunipea”. To our middle-class friends who don’t understand Kiswahili it means, “that one cannot offer me anything”.
As a man don’t expect her to pay rent, buy food and help you pay your Tala loan and still have her respect.
4. Cheating man
If you cheat on her and she finds out, you might be lucky to make things work out between the two of you but the truth is that when her girlfriends will be saying that “all men are dogs”, you are the picture that will be crossing her mind, the real respect for you would have gone.