Comparing yourself to his ex could be dangerous. 

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Many women lose their men because they struggle to be like their exes in different ways. 

You need to act differently. 

You are not so sure whether he told you the truth behind his breakup with the ex. 

Here are five reasons you should stop comparing yourself to his ex, reports Thetalko.com;

1. You are two different persons

 Remember you are two different women. 

Certain things make him more attracted to you. 

Do not lose it by comparing yourself to the woman he left sometime back.

2. You might push your partner towards her

 Constant reminders might evoke sweet memories in his mind. 

He might have forgotten everything good about her, but when you talk about it, good memories come into his mind. 

In other words, you might be representing her interests without knowing it.

3. Focusing on you is more critical

 Focus on yourself. 

Give the man more reasons to forget about his ex. 

Bringing back memories might knock you down. 

Do not spend your time comparing yourself to the woman he no longer wants in life.

4. He hates it

 Your man might not say it, but know that he does not like it.   

Exes often remind men of bitter things. 

She might have cheated on him. 

Talking about the ex-reminds your man about the horrible things that happened before they parted ways.

5. You could end your love

 The anxieties that you are like her is likely to ruin your love life. 

For instance, he might have done so many good things to win her heart, but she only frustrated him. 

You might think the man should also do the same things to you.