Matrimonial conflicts and frequent disagreements among married men are the aspects that make men to evade their families from giving necessary attention and technically finding ways to foil themselves from the naked truth of their negligence.
Marriage consultant in Eldoret Rev. Albert Kigen points out that there are habitual developments that characterize unstable families in men, thus keeping them off from delivering fatherhood responsibilities sufficiently.
Married men hanging out with friends in clubs until late night, without bothering of the wellbeing of their family including their children, Rev. Kigen revealed that such kinds of some men are not having a good reason to revel.
He cites that a section of men that lurks around the clubs have developed the tact to avoid their hungrily and fiery wives.
“They just loiter around from one club to another to buy time for their wives to sleep before tiptoeing into the compounds giving petty excuses of having been held up with tasks,” noted Rev. Kigen who also chairs clergies of Christ ministries in Uasin Gishu.
He also claimed that some wives are impatiently demanding more than what their husbands afford, thus men tend to develop into unfriendly habits to tactfully avoid being held responsible for their promises.
“When men arrive in their homes inebriated and aggressive, they threaten their wives not only to cow them but also not to be pestered with nagging questions of irresponsibility,” Rev. Kigen said while urging men to fully exploit reconciliatory principles with their wives to establish peace with them including trust.
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