Having a direct talk with your lover opens up a lot of stuff about the two of you. You get to know more about them. If they are willing to open up about their dark sides, it becomes even much easier to have a better and intimate understanding of the person you are dealing with.
Asking questions and getting answers, however weird they may seem, is a very nice way of extracting information. The responses may be distorted but if the distortion is too huge, it will strike them at some points and you will get it to know the truth in full.
As such, asking your partner some questions will tend to deepen your connection. But what are these questions you can ask? Well, here are some of them.
1. What is the one thing you always procrastinate on?
If you do get the response on this, you will get to know the thing that your partner has probably been willing to do but, in some way, has been unable to because of mild and subtle laziness. You then encourage them to just accomplish it or help them do it. It is like knowing his hidden self. All this brings you closer to each other.
2. What will you do with your life if you are suddenly awarded Sh10 billion?
They will include you in what will happen if that does come true, won't they? Well, it seems an impossible fantasy with no possibility of ever coming true but the question is just vital for you. You tend to grow closer by visualizing your life out of the normal world. It is allowed to leave and live in mental creations. It draws you closer.
2. Do you believe everything happens for a reason?
As subtle or silly as it may sound, how they reply and how you go about discussing on whatever crops from this will actually bring you closer together. As you discuss, they will tend to reveal a lot about what they think of life and what their perception about it is.
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