Being a father is the toughest responsibility on earth. This is the stage in life where you have a lot to worry about. You have a wife that deserves love and care while your children equally need you. You are also worried about how the world will treat your lovely kids. These are natural concerns. However, stop worrying about these four things and build your family.
1. Looks
It is a fact that you will physically change after some years in marriage. The same will happen to your wife. You should never focus on how you lost your boyhood looks. You can not look like a 20-year-old yet you are 55. Appreciate the natural changes and live a healthy life.
2. Sex prowess
Men have a problem when it comes to gauging sexual satisfaction of their partners. You are likely to overrate yourself when you are doing purely nothing or underrate your awesome job. This should not be an issue to stress you. Talk to your wife and get her honest opinion and way forward.
3. Other people’s opinions
People will review your family. Friends as well as family members will fault your decisions. They will even question how you nurture your children. This should be a source of stress. Listen to them but filter their criticism.
4. Perfection
No one is perfect. The question of being the perfect husband and father should never depress you. Do your best within your means to be the best father your child could have and make sure that your wife sees that you have loved her the best way you could. The other ratings leave them to the perfectionists.