Communication is the most important thing in a relationship. It is through effective communication that a relationship will flourish and happiness exist between the partners in a relationship. As such, the communication has to be affected in the best way possible.
Messaging is the cheapest and most effective communication mode to use especially if you have a lot to talk about and there is no possibility of meeting to have a chat. However, during the texting, there are messages you should never send to that special girl. Here are some classic examples.
1. 'The last time you had sex'
Many girls do not like talking about sex; even if they do, there is really no way she will respect you if you are the first to bring up the topic. Asking her about the last time she had sex is considered an insult and a way to manipulate her emotionally. It won't go down well, no matter how hard she may try not to show it.
2. 'What type of guys you like'
If you really want her to be around for so long, stop asking for her opinion on anything to do with men. It is a show of low self-efficacy and she will start wondering the kind of person she is actually dealing with.
3. 'Your family loves you?'
She was born there. She is supposed to be loved! Even if you clearly see that there is hostility towards her from her own family, just stay away from the topic and wait for her to bring it up herself.
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