A marriage has limits that should never be exceeded for it to stand the test of time. As a wife, there are measures you put in place so that you do not put unnecessary pressure on your husband. It is obvious that you need support from him but if you cross the following three red lines, your marriage will not last.
1. Mother-in-law rivalry
The fact is that, were it not for that woman you hate most, you could have never met him. Give his mother the respect she deserves and do not force him to abandon her. She is the one who gave him life and if he occasionally puts her first before you, learn to stomach that.
2. His friends
When you met him, he had a social network of friends for various purposes. Guide him to drop those that can ruin his new status as a husband but never demand that he quits all his former friendships. The same way you need time with your girls, he equally deserves time with his guys.
3. His passions
There are things that people love professionally and in personal life. You are only free to alter his passions if they affect his health and are addictive. The rest like watching football among others must be left untouched. He will figure out how to balance his new life to include you and the children.