Everyone at one point or another always wishes they find their soul mates or at the very least a partner that would love and support them through the rigors of life. As much as there are no clear measurements upon which one can weigh their relationship, there seems to be some pretty standard values to be upheld in healthy relationships.
However, it's only fair to point that one relationship might differ variably from another relationship yet both still be fulfilling and healthy in their own way. Relationship dynamics are very ironical in that what might work for one couple could spell doom for another union.
Here are some of the signs that your current relationship is a phenomenal home-run:
1. You give each other space
When both partners don't stress out whenever they are away from each other then it shows a massive growth in mutual trust. They trust each other fully to allow for a thriving social circle for the both of them.
2. Though independent, you still support each other
Independence is a healthy virtue that each partner should always strive to cultivate within the relationship. However, supporting your partner and encouraging them to pursue and achieve their dreams also plays a vital role.
3. Effective communication skills
"We're only human" is a saying that should inform you of your partners shortcomings. However, as much as you can get on each other's nerves (which is totally normal) you should also be able to work through your issues .
4. You're not petty
With growing intolerance and unresolved conflicts comes a bin full of resentment which always manifests in the form of petty arguments and constant bickering over trivial matters.
5. You appreciate each other's efforts
After the courtship stage most couples get comfortable and build a sense of entitlement. This therefore leads to a lack of appreciation toward your partners efforts and deeds. Always show appreciation and gratitude.
6. Dates are still on your calendar
It's quite easier to take dates for granted especially after the relationship has seen better days come and go. However, couples who still go out on dates appear to be strengthen their bond one menu at a time.
7. You don't have to pretend around each other
This might sound silly for couples in a long-term relationship, but it’s still just as important. Things like shrinking away to avoid a fight are not things healthy couples do. They feel comfortable enough to talk things out.
8. You still can enjoy each others company
This goes specifically for couples in long-term relationships. If you still enjoy doing activities together and can manage to crack each other up as often as possible then your relationship is in the green light.