When in a relationship, it does not mean that you will end up marrying your partner.
It is the sad truth, but a huge percentage of relationships have premature and sad endings regardless of how hard the participants struggle to keep it going.
Whenever the separation happens, it can be anyone's mistake and even if you know you are the one in the wrong, blaming yourself is total injustice to your standing.
Your partner may decide to walk away, sometimes under very unclear circumstances no matter how hard you try to make it work.
When you have to move on without them, always make sure you do just that.
Here is what you will most certainly have to do;
1. Accept that there is life after your partner
No matter how important they were to you when they walk away, don't be so rigid as to cling to the notion that life could not exist after them.
You can always find someone better.
Even if you think you can't, try telling yourself that you indeed can and move on.
2. Embrace the pain
The only way you are going to exorcise the demons from the past relationship and keep them from haunting you is by simply facing them.
Face every bit of the pain and make sure you make it through.
Trying to hang around with other guys in the name of brushing everything off will only work against you.
3. Focus on self-improvement pursuits
Instead of just focusing on petty things like how miserable it is going to be, be yourself and get busy doing something for you.
You can do anything, from reading to being a part of 'projects' and so on.
Just make sure you keep going.
4. Give it time
This is by far the best option and the most practical.
With time, all will return to normal, and you will have the chance to move on normally.
You have to aid the healing process, and somehow, time will provide the vital platform to do so.
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