At times women can be manipulative in a relationship, they can be selfish as well and no one will dare talk about it.
Everyone wants to be free in a relationship, to have the freedom to love and be loved and do other things.
However, you can easily tell if she wants to take control of you if she exhibits the following:
1. She is always giving conditions
A person who loves you will not do anything for you just because you did something for her, she will do it because it is the right thing to do.
However, if she is always setting hurdles for you so that you can get to her, it is a sign that she wants to take control of you.
For example, if she says "We will go out when you cut some weight" or "I can only take you to my parents if you buy me this dress". She wants to have that control.
2. She likes giving threats
It is natural that some people think that they can beat you into submission when they threaten you.
A woman who wants to control her man will always be giving threats and funny excuses so that you can be what she wants.
For example, she can say that if you do not stop watching late night matches, then you will have to cook supper yourself. She knows that men are not friendly with the kitchen and her hope is that you will be "scared" and stay at home.
4. She is extremely jealous and over reactive
A woman who wants to have you do what she only wants will be very jealous of any person who seems to get your attention.
If you are giving your job at least more attention and getting home a little bit late, she will be jealous. In case you do not reply to her messages immediately, she will fume and accuse you of cheating or ignoring her. There will be no peace.