While it is believed that only ladies can feel so heartbroken when told hurtful words, men feel bad as well. There are certain truths that when his girlfriend/wife tells him he will definitely tear off.

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Here are five truths that men really hate to hear from their women;

1. Poor bedroom performance

When you want a man to feel happy his entire life, tell him he is perfect in bed. 

But when you want to break that heart into pieces then tell him he is just a 'piece of log'. Whether it is true or not, it will really tear him down. 

2. Let's just be friends

When a lady loses feelings for a man, she won't hesitate to tell him on his face although sometimes they only go quiet. 

But telling a man truth from the heart that there are no more feelings for him will really hurt him. Men generally hate being told so.

3. I will find someone else to take care of me if you won't

These words can literally prick a man in the heart and ladies should be really careful before saying them. 

If he truly doesn't care about you lately, just find a better alternative to make him care about you. Don't mention the words 'someone else will' unless you are sure he doesn't love you anymore.

4. This relationship is boring nowadays

Actually, only a lost woman would say so. It is not the man to make the relationship interesting; it takes both of you. 

The moment you tell him that the relationship is boring, he will think it is him that makes it boring and this will hurt. Instead, try to indirectly make the relationship lively and help him. 

5. I'm losing attraction towards you

Just how the words sound makes them really unhealthy. I mean you wouldn't get such words from someone you love and still stay happy. 

If this is the truth, just find an alternative way to express it but do not tell him on his face.