Once you are in love you have to be sure there will be times when the love that you enjoy will start hurting you. If not forever then for a while and it's upon you to contain the hurt.
Here are 3 main instances when love hurts most;
1. When death takes away your love
This happens to be the most painful of all. Even without experience, when death takes away your love everything seems to end. The acute feeling of hurt when your soulmate dies is probably the worst feeling one can experience.
2. When you love and not loved back
Loving and not receiving back love from the person you love. It sucks. What makes this even worse is when you seek advice from friends or family and what you get is 'just stop loving him/her'. How can one easily stop loving when they had deeply fallen in love?
3. Betrayal; unfaithfulness
Although this is common, it is still another way of love hurts. Being faithful and committed only to realize your partner does the opposite can make you regret; first, the reason you accepted to be in the relationship, second, the reason you chose to love that particular person and lastly, the reason you believed and trusted that particular person.
Love is meant to be enjoyed however the joy has to be 'spiced' up with sorrow so as to make the entire experience worthwhile.