Hello, my name is Susan. I am engaged to a man with whom I intend to spend the rest of my life with.
Lately, he has been insisting on filming our intimate moments but every time he insists, I talk against doing this.
He has threatened to call off the relationship if I persist with my refusal.
Please advise me.
Response:
Thank you, Susan, for seeking advice on what is clearly a serious issue in your relationship.
I will not mince my words on this one.
That man is not the right guy for you; he is out to exploit you and then dump you.
I find it sinister that he would want to film your intimate moments.
The question I ask is: To what end?
In an era where sex tapes are being released on the internet left, right, and centre, your man's shocking insistence on filming your intimate moments should scare the life out of you.
He is a man that wants to hold you hostage to those moments that you have shared with him.
I have a strong feeling that if you allow him to do that, he may very well release what he has filmed to the public as a form of revenge should your relationship implode at some point in the future.
My advice to you is: Run as fast as you can and don't look back.
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