Sexual abuse on children has been on rising in recent times. Reports have it that one out of six boys and one out of four girls are sexually abused before they reach 18 years.
This, however, can be prevented by doing several things among them, sex education which should entail the following.
1. Tell them their bodies are private
Explain to your children that no one except mummy, daddy or a doctor in your presence can see them naked. The other people should see them with their clothes on. This is also the best time to explain their body parts and use an appropriate language such as 'bottom' to refer to 'vagina'.
2. Assure them of your support when they discuss body changes with you
This will increase their openness. They will feel comfortable sharing out with you on the changes they feel their bodies are going through. Assure them they will not get into trouble by sharing what they feel. Don't over-react when they report sexual harassment.
3. Inquire about their friends
Ask your children whom they spend the day with when at school, out for school or church activities. Take your time and learn their characters, ask your children open questions and they will feel free to talk to you about them.
Contacts to report:
Sexual and Gender-Based Violence silence breaker: Dial 1195
FGM and Child Marriage Hotline is 0770 610505.
GVRC Kenya provides free services for victims of gender-based violence: 0719638006.
If a child needs help, call the national child helpline: 116.