In life, you are judged less by what you are, and majorly by what other people think of you.
You have friends and enemies who have varied opinions about you.
As such, you never really know who the real enemy or the real friend is.
They may act true, but behind your back, they are assembling weapons that may lead to your downfall.
You need to learn how to play the cards correctly so that everything that is done benefits you in some way.
But how can you do that? Well, here is how you will get them on your side, one after the other:
1. Allow them small victories
Allowing your friends and enemies small victories will help smoothen your course.
As long as you are not losing too much, allow them to feel like they are dominating you.
Only be sensitive about the 'big wars' because you have to win them.
Give them plenty of praise and make them feel like they have some form of supernatural presence in your life.
That is how friends will keep close to you. Everyone wants dominance, and there is nothing sweeter to your peers than letting them feel they are dominating.
They will want to take you on assignments so that they can win even more.
Let them take the small victories and things that don't matter to you.
When your time to win finally comes, make it feel like it was because of them that you won.
2. Heap praises on them
Praising your friends and enemies saves you the trouble of having to answer questions of 'what does he really feel about me?'
Occasionally heap praise indirectly by use of third parties and random comments.
Once they know that you 'like' them, they will allow you a lot of peace and it helps you move forward without a lot of stumbling blocks.
Send this false signal and make sure that it is well received. It works wonders.
3. Create a false sense of security
When in the face of your enemy, act humble and kind of timid.
Make them feel they have some sort of power over you.
Lull them into this false sense of security as you work your way towards your goals.
Showing that you are afraid of an enemy will even prompt them into trying to scare other people who may stand in your way so that the 'fear influence' grows.
As they do that, secretly build your empire, and once they come to their senses, it will be too late.
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