Losing a job is quite tough especially if it was unexpected.

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It comes with feelings of anger, worry, frustrations, depression and also loss of self-esteem. It is important to note that this can happen to anyone at anytime thus your partner deserves your love, care and support to process that loss. 

Remember that your partner chose you since he/she was sure you will be by their side through thick and thin. To get the process of recovery going, it is good to recognize that the situation affects both of you.

Being supportive to your partner helps in rebuilding their confidence hence getting ready to make progress towards another job opportunity.

In case your partner loses his/her job, here's how to support them;

1. Remind them of their strengths 

It does not matter what lead to job loss. This is the best time to let your partner know of his/her strengths. You can even remind them of some of the achievements they accomplished in the past. This helps in improving their self-confidence.

2. Actively listening to them 

Actively listening to your partner is an important skill especially after they lose their job. Being present, maintaining eye contact and simple acts of affection while your partner is sharing something emotional even if you do not say anything is the best gift he/she needs at that time.

3. Do acts of kindness for them and express gratitude 

Simple acts of kindness such as living him/her a love card can be really touching and this will remind him/her that they are still loved despite losing their jobs.