Marriage was once sacred before things changed. In Gusii region, it is not uncommon to find women who have children who were not sired by their husbands.
The trend has led to family conflicts, leading to many people committing suicide in the region.
The story of renowned Egesa FM presenter Okebiro Omose who committed suicide after his wife cheated on him is one good example.
Today, a week does not go by without hearing cases of men from Kisii committing suicide due to infidelity.
But how does one know if their spouse is cheating on them?
Below are six signs your woman is cheating on you.
1. She does not talk about the future of your relationship.
Most virtuous ladies ask their men openly or discreetly about their future plans. Kisii ladies are therefore not an exception. If she does not want to talk about the future of the relationship, it means she has other options to explore.
2. Does not have interest in sex.
In any relationship there is that intimacy created through sex. If she starts losing interest in sex, there is a possibility she is getting it from somewhere else.
3. She stops caring.
Women, Kisii women included, usually want women who care. They want you to fulfil your promises to them. They don't like it when you cancel or postpone a planned date. If suddenly she does not care even if you do not call her, that is a red flag.
4. Changes her looks.
When you were dating, she used to look gorgeous but after you got married she changed. Then all of a sudden she starts dressing 'to kill' when she is going out with friends and not when you are going out with her. This might mean she is cheating on you and wants to capture the attention of her new catch.
5. Dodging questions.
Most women feel guilty after they cheat. They do not want to be asked many questions if they are cheating. They equally take long to answer if you insist, purposely to look for a lie.
6. Increased privacy.
When your woman is loyal, she will not hide anything from you. If she starts ignoring calls and putting her phone on aeroplane mode or on silent mode, it means there is something she is hiding.
If you see all these signs, it might mean your woman is cheating on you. Ask her if she is not interested in you. However, do it in a manner that it will not cause hatred.
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