Almost every argument or issue in a relationship can be carefully resolved through the right procedure.

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However, some obnoxious comments serve as a red flag.

It's important to note that what appears as a dealbreaker in one relationship may not be the same in another. 

However, experts agree that some topics should serve as dealbreakers in every relationship due to the potential toxin they have for your relationship in the long run. 

It's therefore advisable that you move on if your partner keeps saying these three things:

1. Being told what to think or say

It might seem as though your partner is being concerned at first when he or she tells you what to think or how you should act. 

However, sometimes it goes too far where she or he holds you to ransom for saying this instead of that. 

When your opinions are always falling on the wrong side, rise and go before it becomes too toxic for you.

2. Disapproving your appearance

It sounds mature when you partner sharpens you on certain looks, and you will see it on their face. 

However, when they are always disapproving your appearance and telling you to look differently, that is like tormenting you emotionally. 

Someone is messing with your self-esteem here. You need to consider packing up.

3. Threaten to hurt you

Your partner might threaten to hurt you but withdraw it as a joke. 

However, during heated arguments, your partner might threaten to hurt you, and you should not take this as a joke even if they claim so later. 

Whenever they say that, it's either happening, or it's on their mind.