As a woman, I need a real man. This is a universal desire of all women.

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However, the population of men is less compared to women and worse enough, viable husbands are scarce.

Fortunately, my dad is among the viable few and am proud of that. This is a man who does not demand respect but deserves it.

My dad understands the laws of grooming and is ever courteous.

The jovial man of the house has killer looks. No wonder my mom smiles from the time she wakes up till bedtime almost daily.

He is ever protective, loving and caring. No one can mess with us and go free if we are not on the wrong.

The care he has accorded us is beyond comparison. His long hugs and soft kisses are a permanent memory.

A man who apologizes even when he is not on the wrong is an awesome gift. In case my dad realizes that he has wronged you, be sure to get a sincere apology.

At times, he does the same to calm occasional misunderstandings even if he is not the culprit. This has made it extremely difficult to go against his set guidelines.

Who wants to be a mother to academic dwarfs? If you do, I beg to differ with you.

My lovely and handsome dad is a Philosophy Doctorate holder not by determination and perseverance but by exemplary qualification since nursery school.

I credit our academic prowess as a family to his golden genes.

My regret is the boundaries that hamper my realisation of his one quality among the many.

Should I confirm how well he spends his nights? Is tempting him the right move or a confession of my feelings?

I do not want to hurt my mum but her facial expressions every morning are pushing me into a difficult situation.

Please help me demarcate clear boundaries between a father figure and the dream man that I lust after daily.