A disagreeing couple. [Photo/pinterest]
It's all normal to have feelings or to be attracted to the opposite sex although one is married. However, what you do with the emotions is what subjects one to reality. Similarly to the old saying ‘you cannot stop a bird from flying over your head, but you can honestly prevent it from building a nest in your house’, goes, you can stop those emotions from becoming a reality to your existence.
One of the risky matters that you may ever do as a married man is being intentional in going out with any other lady that you are interested in. It all begins with a downward spiral, which occasionally can be hard to prevent.
That’s how many men find themselves trapped with the other woman.
Infidelity does not just mean you being sexually involved with another woman but emotionally as well.
Time and again men get abstracted into pursuing the extra woman thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. What men don’t comprehend is that is not so as only a paltry five percent married men essentially leave their wives for their lovers.
Confide in a close male friend who is of good morals. One who will not condemn you, but rather feel you and ask him to keep you accountable as you close this chapter in your life.
Cultivate a healthy relationship with your wife by spending more time with her, focusing on her positives, and reminiscing your courtship days. Imagine the impact this will have on your kids leave alone your wife. If you can just get rid of the weeds on your side, your grass will and can be greener too.