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No lady will ever want to be called a side chic. However, this is not for you to decide as you might even know you are one. Here are simple signs you will use to know what value you are to your man:
Contact you mostly weird night hours
Ladies, a man who truly loves you will always be in touch with you. He will wake you up with a call, wish you great morning, nice lunch, call you in the evening know how your day has been and maybe ask to take you for dinner if necessary. However, just know you are a side chic when a man only calls you or text at night, maybe calling you over at their places.
You never meet his family or friends
A true man will introduce you to his family and friends. He who keeps you away from his family and friends will be hiding something from you. Most probably he doesn’t want you go meet the main chic at his home or friends place. More so, this will only mean he doesn’t want to make the relationship serious.
He avoids taking you out to public places
Avoiding taking you out will mean he doesn’t want to be seen with you. The best place you two will be comfortable is either your place or sometimes his place. Men who are always afraid to take you out hide many things you should be worried about, and it will be best if you walk out of such relationships.
You know little about each other
A true relationship should be open to each other. A man who hides many things from you about them is just not the right type for you. When you are together, he doesn’t like talking about the relationship or about the two of you. The only conversation he likes is about awkward things and would rather have sex than talk.