The term 'sponsor' has changed its real meaning and the craze by school girls to acquire a 'sponsor' has in a faster speed grown immensely.
It is a fad that every young woman desires to be associated with; a deeply felt desire to have that man who is twice their age to pamper them with money, expensive weaves and a weekend out at a high class hotel.
But thinking of it rationally, do the relationships with these men end up to any good?
First, what goes around comes back around. If you are hooking up with another person’s husband, there is no doubt that the same thing will befall you in future. Your marriage may never last since some other girl may hook up with your husband just as you did in your tender age of foolishness.
Secondly, chances of you getting married to that rich old “mzee” are close to nil. Why would you therefore waste your precious time with them? If we are bringing up a generation of women who cannot work to earn a living but only depend on men for money, then the female species will have no place in future.
Why can’t ladies work hard, earn their own money then start their own families? Why should you date a man who is the age of your father when there are plenty of young handsome men with whom you can make a family with?
It is time ladies reasoned and learned to lead decent lives. They must learn to work hard and earn their own money.