Having a partner who loves you dearly is one thing that is quite difficult to find in our today’s world. Love is sweet and bitter at the same time and of course is very difficult to understand. An argument in a relationship is something that is expected since at one point in life people have to disagree on one thing or the other. How you handle the argument will determine the future of your relationship. These are some of the things you should do or don’t to handle the argument.
Make sure that your partner knows that he or she has offended you in a certain way. Keeping quiet about it will hurt you inside such that will lead to a very serious outburst. It will get you thinking that your partner does not care about you yet he/she is not aware that you are offended. Handle the matter on the spot without prolonging it.
Never use a weapon when your anger gets to the peak. Do not attempt to hit your partner as it might lead to a fight or something worse. Control your hot temper by leaving the house or place of argument and until you have cooled down then solve the problem.
Avoid jumping into conclusion about something that you have no facts about. Talk about it politely to your partner to find out the truth by yourself rather than listening to people or making conclusions about something you don’t know about.
In case of a serious argument, do it away from your children or other people. Always make your arguments are quiet and ensure that no one knows about what is going on. If possible pretend to be fine even if deep down your hearts know that all is not well.
Never involve friends and relatives when in an argument between the two of you. People tend to make arguments uglier since they will add more fire to the problem.
Always be quick to apologize when you are on the wrong. Accept your mistakes and assure your partner that you will not repeat and let it be so. Let not the pride in you kill down your relationship. And when you are wronged it is also good to forgive and move on.
Confront your partner politely when he/she has done something that is offending to you. Make them know how much you love them then kindly ask why they offended you.
Never introduce past issues in the argument since it is worse than you expect. Let the past mistakes be in the past. Handle present matters right away and let them remain a past thing too.
Avoid using threatening words like I will divorce you, I will hit you or will kill you. You might end up regretting what you did after that.
Never use sex as a weapon against your partner. Most people would rush to have sex with other people to make their partners feel the pain. That would be the end of your relationship.