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Romance is like a wooden fire, it starts slow and burns to intensity as two people get to know each other. A man who brings out the romance too soon has no real interest of getting to know you.
He is merely trying to win you quickly like a trophy, either for his lustful purposes or for showing-off. Never ever trust a man who from the very first date brings out all the romantic fireworks.
When a man wants to quickly win a woman, he will do anything and everything to get into her pants. He is not interested in the details of her boring life even if he pretends to be. He is not keen on getting to know her strengths or weaknesses.
He is not interested in her dreams or ambitions. He does care not about her hopes, fears or values.
In his mind, he has already decided he wants her regardless of who she is on the inside.
On the other hand, a man who truly wants to love a woman is interested in getting to know her very well. You cannot love that which you do not know. He will, therefore, work hard to get to know her as opposed to getting to win her.
He is not interested in being overly romantic since his mission is not to impress her but to create a chance for both of them to truly know each other. His approach, therefore, shifts from that of being romantic to that of being truthful.
As they truly get to know each other, his affection for her grows and he begins to show it in small appreciable ways. His romance grows with his affection. And that is the way it’s supposed to be.
Beware of men who are too romantic, they use it as a quick strategy to win the game.