A lady thinking[Photo/ebonymagazine.com]Have you ever wondered why since you broke up with your first love, the next relationships just never seem to fall into place?

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Maybe there is something you have been repeating in all of them that you need to stop. Some of them never seem like a big deal but they affect the ability for you to have another long lasting relationship and they include;Holding back.It is very hard to open up to up to someone new after getting out of a relationship with someone who hurt you.You are probably vulnerable at that moment and very protective of yourself but you should give your partner a chance to know you and know more about you.Stop with the games.Make sure you avoid the little things that can cause arguments and misunderstanding between the two of you.You have just started seeing this person so you should stop flirting with other people.It's important for you to respect what you have started.Do not change to please them. Pretending to be someone you are not is the hardest thing to keep up with on this earth.He might like the person you are pretending to be and not the real you and keep up like that is not easy, you will have to be yourself at the end of the day.