Despite liking her or just loving her to a whole new level, that does not guarantee that she reciprocates the same feelings for you.
Presently, society has a major problem of people looking at others as stepping stones to be used in a quest to achieve a better life. The most disheartening fact is that this has found its way to the dating scene and grown roots so deep that it has become so normal, we wouldn't want to accept that we ate just being used.
Have you at one point fallen in love with a girl but found yourself more lost and confused than you thought it could be? Does she love you, or is she just using you?
These are the signs o find out which side of the coin it is:
1. She enjoys her personal space… and wants it a lot!
If you are dating a girl who clings to you for a few days then completely ignores you for the next few days, there is a reason to worry.
When a girl loves or claims to love a guy, avoiding you completely for some time every now and then is not always on the menu. Like any Nairobian, Kibera girls tend to crave for attention from the ones they love and will keep you on toes thinking about her and pushing you to just be with her even if it's to look at her while she blushes.
2. She does not introduce you as a boyfriend.
This has probably happened to everyone at some point, but most guys in love almost always forgive, forget and brush it off as a no-brainer.
Have you ever been introduced as just a friend? Well, the real question is, are you just a friend? If you’re the man in her life and she is convinced so, she will proudly display you like a primped up puppy in a dog show.
3. She keeps you away from family and friends.
If she isn't flaunting you around, it's often a sign she's just using you for one thing or the other. Most probably there is a real guy somewhere being flaunted.
4. Keeps you intact in the friend zone
Does she behave like a friend to you every now and then? If she hugs and cuddles and gets all kinky with you one moment and then the next moment she pushes you away telling you it’s all happening too fast, walk away.
5. She dominates the whole affair.
She is the boss, and you the little puppet wrapped around her finger. She decides when, and what happens in the relationship and you are not to object. Well, you are in for a heartbreak.
6. You just don't feel like she's into you.
Everyone has this little inner person who keeps us in check. More often or not, if your guts insist that she isn't I to you, it's not worth the fight. She is using you.
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