You would imagine that most of the best women we have around are taken and happily married if not in a relationship. But this is not always the case.

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More often than not, you will meet with your college friends who you have all along been assuming that they are married only to be surprised that they are still single.

But how comes that such good women with bearable character and virtues end up staying single for too long?

They value freedom

Some women simply enjoy doing as they wish without having to compromise. They want to go out when they want, party or even go for a sleepover without having to answer anyone. This kind of freedom cannot be guaranteed in a relationship and such women end up staying single until when they at least feel that they can sacrifice their freedom for the sake of a relationship.

Relationships are not a priority

Every person has their priorities in life. To some, a relationship is a priority while to others it is the last thing they want to think about. Some women feel that they need to get a good education first, build up their career and achieve some other goals after which the relationship can follow. This they believe will earn them the respect they deserve from the men they will be dating.

Marriage is not their thing

Marriage is not for all and some people would rather stay single than stand being answerable to some man for the rest of their lives. Such women prefer to get a kid and lead an independent life without having a man to submit to.

They would rather not be jumpy

Finding a man who truly fits you may not be easy. Instead of jumping from one relationship to another trying to see if it works, some women prefer to remain single until they find their perfect match. They concentrate on improving themselves and developing their personalities in preparation for meeting their Mr. Right.

It's the only chance you got to have fun

Being single can be really fancy if you know what you want. If you want to travel the world and do some of the craziest things you have ever imagined, the perfect time to do it is when single. Some women still feel that they need to buy a car, a house and enjoy vacations when they are still young before committing their time and feelings to some sort of a life and death kind of relationship.