Unhappy couple. [Photo/everysquareinch.com]
When it comes to relationships, everybody wants to have a good one; a relationship with happiness.
However, as time goes by, the couple engages in arguments not knowing that they may be unhealthy to their relationship.
As a result, these marriages collapse after a short period full of disagreements.
This is worthy to worry about.
For one to keep a good relationship, you need the determination to avoid every mistake that can demolish your marriage.
Some of the signs that your marriage will collapse are discussed below:
1. Failure to respect each other.
The opinion and the ideas of each other matter a lot in a serious relationship. Sharing ideas is vital and once one partner goes to make his or her own ideas, trouble is beckoning and the marriage may soon collapse. A partner should respect each other's ideas and advice accordingly to maintain strong relationships.
2. You fail to communicate clearly.
Communication is vital in a relationship. In order to express your feelings, ideas and opinions then you need to explain to your partner vividly to avoid disagreements.
3. You spend less time with each other.
Obviously, during the engagement, you enjoyed good times and every moment together.
This is a relationship booster. If you notice that you are spending much less time with each other then your relationship is approaching a breakage.
4. You're doubting whether your partner is the 'right one'
This plays a vital role in seeing loving partners apart.
This is when one feels he or she is in a relationship with the wrong person and as a result 'mpango wa kando' emerges. In a short while, the marriage is no longer in existence.
5. One partner has become so secretive.
When one partner keeps a lot of secrets to himself or herself and the other feels left out, then the relationship will not last long.
Partners should contribute efforts towards achieving one goal after another. Both of you should be willing to cooperate in order to achieve a target or else you part ways.
Popularly, "It takes two to tango." So every partner should be ready to hold another's hand in order to maintain a healthy relationship.