The healing process can take long but its success will depend on both of you. [Photo/ Infoproinvestigations.com]
Living with a cheating partner is not easy.
It is even tougher when you truly love your man or woman and you cannot imagine breaking up. The healing process can take long but its success will depend on both of you. Here are four ways to rescue your marriage.Take responsibilityA man or woman found cheating should take responsibility. It is senseless to continue defending yourself when the truth is out. Taking responsibility in this case means accepting that you are wrong.Balance rage and need for informationRage will get you nowhere. Feel free to explain to your spouse why you ended up betraying his or her trust. The same case applies to the person who has been cheated on. Accept the fact that you found him or her cheating and come to the bottom of the problem.Talk about how the affair has affected your familyOutlining how the affair has affected your family will enable you come to a consensus in reference to the way forward. Cheating can cost you in different ways. It can affect you financially, economically and psychologically.Spend time togetherSpending time together will heal the wounds. Create more time to be with your spouse. Regardless of your work schedule, find time to be with your spouse.Forgive only if you are readyForgiving someone is not easy. Only forgive when you are ready.