Things completely change after giving birth to a firstborn. You did expect that the birth of your child would change your life and particularly your relationship. It suddenly seems that everything about your life is vastly different. Here are some of the changes that happen to a relationship after having a baby.
1.The baby gets more love than the father does. It seems natural that the baby should receive all your love, even pulling the affection that used to be directed at your partner.
2. You are off sex for the time being. There was an understandable pause after you delivered – no sex for six weeks or more, not that you wanted it that with all those labors that you had to endure.
3.The bond between you gets stronger. Undoubtedly you are going through a trying period in your lives, but the magic of giving birth to a new life is there, and as you go on nurturing your little darling, the feelings that unite you are growing stronger imperceptibly.
4.You become parents and not lovers. You forecast on serious live matters than romance. The role changes in a relationship.
5.The relationship remains under-nurtured.You give priority to parenthood issues rather than spending time with your partner.