Online dating is full of scumbags. Some will want you only for your body, while others will want your money. [Photo/ nation.co.ke]
Online dating is one of the most sought-after means of creating a relationship in Kenya today. However, these are some of the mistakes you cannot afford to make.False advertising If you truly want to get a lover from an online site, then it is important that you actually upload a profile photo of yourself. Upload one of your latest pictures and avoid using random photos downloaded from the internet. Posting false information might make you get someone who might dislike the real you with time.Avoid over-sharingPeople might use the information you give them against you. It is therefore advisable to keep the first conversations tight and tidy. Sharing too much information usually works against people socially, romantically and even in business meetings or job interviews. In online dating, avoid overexpressing yourself. Keep it simple.Don’t play down your intentionsPeople choose online dating for various reasons. Making one's intentions known is very important. Let the person you will be conversing with know if you want to get married and have children, if you are just looking for a few casual dates, or if you just want a relationship but not marriage. People usually don’t make their intentions known and most of the times end up in relationships they did not want in the first place.No money from the honey! Online dating is full of scumbags. Some will want you only for your body, while others will want your money. Try to learn as much as possible about the other person before you can start trusting them. Don’t give money to someone because you have been talking online for months.