Cases of married men sleeping with their house helps are more than common in Kenyan.

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But why would a married man cross the boundary to have sex with a house help? Sample four reasons below;

1. Great cooks

The best way to get to a man's heart is through his stomach, it is said. If you are a woman and you know you are poor at cooking, just know you are in trouble. The day your house help- if she is good at cooking- will prepare food for your husband is the day your hubby may be taken away. He would want to sample more delicious food from the maid, just like that.

2. If house-help is attractive

You are a married woman? Never hire a lady who is more attractive than you as a house help. Never hire a lady who puts on short skirts in the house when your husband is around. Hire one and you would have ruined your marriage. She will turn out to be your co-wife. Simple. Hire one who is old like your mother.

3. If you deny him sex

Some women fail to satisfy their husband's conjugal rights. If you are among these women just know he will seek this satisfaction somewhere else and if you have a house help, she will serve that purpose. Ensure you satisfy that man sexually before the house help comes in as a substitute.

4. If the house help does all wife duties

A house help who does all household duties including cleaning, cooking, ironing and serving food while you are busy chasing your career goals will definitely replace you. Your man will bed her. So dear career woman, don't be comfortable allowing the maid do all household chores.