When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line as you don't want to make false accusations.
So, while I'm sharing this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it's a tricky situation. It's hard to be sure if someone's cheating, but protect yourself: Be vigilant, and pay attention to your mind and spirit within the relationship. But, at the same time, be careful not to let anxiety lead the way because unnecessary paranoia will just drive your lover away.
Here are some red flags that may signal that your significant other is cheating:
1. Less sex. Unless he's Superman, he can only have so much sex. So, if he's getting it from another source, you might notice. Whether it's another woman or a porn addiction, even if he's not cheating, a decrease in sex signals serious issues in the relationship.
2. Jumpy cell phone habits. In a perfect world, we'd be open about sharing our correspondence with our significant others. But, if you notice that he is getting protective and/or nervous when he gets calls or texts, it may be cause for alarm.
3. Gushing or talking about someone suddenly. You know that exhilarating feeling you get when you meet someone new and exciting? You want to tell the world about him/ her. One of my exes began talking about a lady a lot near the end of our relationship — she just always seemed to be at his social gatherings that I didn't happen to attend.
4. Friends acting strange. His friends will certainly remain loyal to him in most cases. They will not let you know what's going on, but they will definitely be racked with guilt, and their behaviour may change slightly when they are around you while protecting his secret.