Is there a sure way to know if you’ve met “the one?” It takes time for a partner to give a clue on how they feel. But there are signs you can tell your partner want to be with you. Here are some of them:
1. Your partner relates with ease.He/she says, “I’ve never told this to anyone before.” This is a sure sign you might just be the one. Relationships that are easy don’t require questioning. Men, especially, have a hard time with sharing intimate details. They don’t speak of their fears. Most people hold on to their vulnerability and do not show it for a long time in relationships. So, if your partner is sharing, openly crying, and feels completely comfortable around you this is a sign that there is a deeper meaning to this union than just a passing fling.
2. There is not enough time to spend together. Relationships go through this in the beginning, but if you are still each others’ best past time this is a nice clue that your partner thinks you are a keeper. People who make time to be with their partners have the best intention of making it serious.
3. There is little or no outside drama. You understand each other without explanations or expectations. Relationships that are meant to turn into a committed one have very strong bonds. If you are not dealing with jealousy, creating scenarios that question commitment, then you can be sure this person will keep you around for the rest of his/her life. If your partner is telling you that you make him/her feel calmed and safe, you can be sure you are the one.
4. You share similar priorities and moral values. If you are discussing finances, future goals, and the what if’s of your lives together, most likely that should let you know there is some seriousness to this relationship. Partnerships that share similar ventures such as where you will live, having a family, pets, and other deep conversations tend to be stable. They are sure signs of future commitments.