The dream of every couple when getting married is to stay together until death. Right?
However, today, marriage is rocked by uncountable misunderstandings that closing a year in a husband-wife union makes history. But why this? Sample the points below on how you can shield your marriage from dissolution;
1. Don't take advise from other couples or family members
The surest ways to shorten marriage is by listening to external marital advise. By the way did you know that when people talk ill of you it means you have something special that they admire but don't have. Whenever you see people run to you with all manner of advise on how you should manage your family just know you are doing fine. Hah! But follow whatever they will tell you and you will be separated the following day. They will be first ones to laugh at you.
2. Never use the words 'you never' or 'you always' to your partner
This may come when a partner fails to perform particular tasks. It may include cleaning, coming home late or cooking bad. When you are a man and you say your wife 'never' cooks good food, then you'll 'never' like her food. Give room for improvement. Or for the case of women; your man comes home late and the moment he steps into the house, you are up; 'you never' come early. This makes him a perennial latecomer which may go down wrongly and break the marriage.
3. Ask for direction
Just as business people ask for advise from consultants and sick people seek for help from doctors, even married couples should seek for professional advise. Engaging professional advisers when there is conflict may help a couple get a new perspective about a particular issue thus resolving a difference in a more mature way.
4. Don't compare your relationship to others
Never ever envy other couples because it is really exhausting. Learn to grab what belongs to you and make it glitter to the level you only love.