Not all ladies are good for marriage. Nowadays, getting a lady to call a wife is like looking for a coin in dark room. We are blessed with many beautiful girls in this country but not all are for marriage.

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A real man who wants a long life marriage must be keen in choosing a lady to marry. Lustful this usually fades faster. 

This has been brought by fast-moving technology and fashion which is rendering our girls beauty. They have forgotten their nature and have engaged some make ups and fancy wears. 

Here are some of the things that men are looking before dating a girl for marriage.

 Decency.

Here, we are talking of both outside and inside look. A lady who wears decently cannot embarrass her husband in front of parents and public. 

I'm not condemning trousers but some of the trousers worn by our ladies are a complete disgrace. Tight trousers exposing their bodies and small skirts and dress only attract men for short of a period and that is intimacy period. 

Consequently, wearing decent does not mean wearing a long skirt or baggy clothes but being smart. On the other hand, a lady must be decent in mind. Mind decency is to me is how a lady carries herself especially in front of the public. A suitable lady for marriage should be humble in front of her husband.

Understanding.

Here, I'm talking about a lady putting herself in your own shoes. Comprehending situations events and being mature enough. If a lady understands men’s temptations she will not judge his man merely.

Hard work.

Nowadays ladies have become so lazy due to social media influence. A lady should now know how to schedule her time. She should have to network which is also healthy and time to perform her duties. 

Most importantly, a lady should be able to do small household chores like cooking, washing the utensils, washing the house and generally maintaining cleanliness.

Respect.

Respect is earned, in agreement. This does not give a lady an excuse for not respecting her man. A lady is supposed to be so respectful in all aspects. Also, she should be obedience to all people.

For the ladies, if you follow the above simple things you will be guaranteed of getting married and avoid single mothering.