Trouble getting the right girl of your choice seems a daunting task for many men who end up settling for the wrong lovers due to shyness they might be harboring for decades. Being shy can limit many opportunities to yourself making you a loner and fail to enjoy life to the fullest.
Communication skills are the most crucial element to getting the right lady of your choice as well as opening doors of opportunities to your life to your better sexual life. Better communication skills require practice as you will need it to develop more confidence. For instance, if you find yourself shy to be around ladies, find friends who are confident with ladies and emulate their style. Caution though, approach ladies as you interact with them like in sports, doing homework to get to know their likes and dislikes as well as to build confidence. One temptation is to jump into asking for sex, my dearest friend you will be termed a pervert, just take it slow as you build up. Start observing body language like hugging as a way of greeting, then reasonable touching with time.
Still, on communication skills, find reasonable small talks that are meaningful and interest her based on the likes and dislikes you have gathered from your various small talks. Observe your body language at all times, body language is key and it speaks 90 percent of you, 10 percent is only left in your mouth to confirm what your body portrays. Thus, it is more reasonable to dress smart, ladies love men who dress smartly as they say, "dress the way you want to be addressed."
Body posture is also critical. Maintain a straight body posture as this is likely to make you look confident. Always keep note of those inner thoughts that keep discouraging you that you are shy but do not allow yourself to be put down by such. If it does persist, which in some cases it does for beginners, practice meditation often informs of prayer to build up your faith.
Another biological tactic is to tuck your thumb with your fingers or rather cover your thumbs with your fingers whenever nervous body reaction approaches. With regular practice, you will develop the confidence to stand in front of that beautiful lady you have always wanted like a guru as you engage in laughs and meaningful conversation.
As you engage in conversation, keep on smiling, Duchenne smile, in particular, has been known to be genuine and infectious making you lovable and approachable. All these skills in mind and you have no trouble engaging in conversation, you can practice hugging, little flirting as well as asking her out for a date.
By now, she will be into you and she would automatically respond with a big Yes. This skills will have secured you from being friend-zoned and you will now have the privilege of securing a slot to be called her lover.
As for a date, choose a romantic venue, it can be a dark-lit romantic dinner, walk in the park or any other. You can make it a surprise or ask her opinion but surprises work better for first dates.
It is from great dinner that you can kiss her and probably proceed to have sex, your body languages will be the ones communicating and you might live happily thereafter. With your shyness, you can be flying with a smiling face to the bank.