1. He’s not asking you out.
If a guy likes you, trust me, he will ask you out. It's pretty easy for a guy to pick up his phone and ask you out because, basically, men find it very satisfying to get what they want. If a guy wants you, he will find you. So, girl, if you don’t think you gave him enough time to notice you, take the time it took you to notice him and divide it by half. If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow; he will immediately let you know that and he won't keep you guessing.
2. He’s not calling you.
Men surely know how to use a phone. No matter how busy their schedule is, how crazy their day may sound: girl, if he likes you, he will find time. If a guy is into you, you would be the right spot in their horrible busy day, which of cause would be a day that he would never be too busy to call you. If a guy chooses not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then girl, he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs.
3. He’s not having sex with you
This is easy, when a man likes you, he wants to touch you, always. You will meet or you have met men that will simply not be attracted to you and every single one of them will never ever tell you that. Oh, the things they’ll say…they’re sick, scared, hurt, scared again. but the truth is, he is not attracted to you and therefore doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. if the guy was into you, he would be having a very hard time keeping his paws off you… oh, the simplicity of it all! If a man is not trying to undress you, he’s not into you.
4. He only wants to see you when he is drunk.
If a guy likes you, he’ll want to see you when his judgment isn’t impaired. It's really funny to drink and date. Who doesn’t want to bring booze to the makeup party? It could make you more confident but hey, are likely to talk dirty! It can be all good as long as you don’t confuse ice-breaking for real intimacy. Be aware that if the clown has to slip on the red nose every time it gets intimate, it could be symptomatic of a bigger problem. If he only wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you when he’s inebriated, it ain't love - it's sport. So, ladies, don’t let your desire to be loved and feel affection cloud your judgment. Know you deserve not just an affectionate, attentive boyfriend, but you deserve an affectionate, attentive, sober one.